Love is not a relationship. 'S love connects two people. But there is a relationship. The report concluded something is a noun has come to the conclusion, the honeymoon is over. Now there is no joy, no enthusiasm, now all over.
You can keep it alive just to keep faith with your promises. You can keep it alive because it is convenient and comfortable, pamper! You can keep it alive because you do not have nothin 'else to do. You can keep it alive because if you tore it down, you creeresti a 'multitude of complications.
The report is something complete, finished, to complete. Love is never a relationship, love is a continuous relationship between two beings: it is always a river that flows without end. Love knows no conclusions: the honeymoon begins and never ends. It's not like a story that has a definite beginning and at some point come to an end: it is a continuous phenomenon. Lovers end, the amorecontinua; is a continuity: it is a verb not a noun.
Why the man down to one report, the beauty of being in contact with each other? Why such a hurry? Because a deal is uncertain situation, while the report provides a safe, a certainty. Relate to others is the only meeting between two strangers who can be together if only for one night and could say goodbye the next morning ... who knows what might happen tomorrow? And we all have a fear that having to make the match safe and predictable. We want the future is in keeping with our ideas, not allow it to take its course. That's why immediately reduce every verb to noun.
you fall in love with a woman or a man and immediately began to think of marriage. Want to turn love into a legal contract. Why? Because the law gets in the way of love? La legge si intromette perchè in realtà l’amore non c’è. E’ solo una fantasia, e tu sai che la fantasia sparirà; vuoi stabilizzarla prima che sparisca, prima che scompaia vuoi fare qualcosa che renda impossibile la separazione.
In un mondo migliore, con persone più meditative, con più bagliori di illuminazione diffusi sulla Terra, la gente amerà, amerà moltissimo, ma l’amore rimarrà un relazionarsi tra due esseri umani e non diventerà mai una relazione. Non sto affermando che il loro amore sarà solo momentaneo; anzi, in questo caso, con ogni probabilità il loro amore andrà più in profondità del vostro, avrà un intimità higher, and will encompass more poetry will be closer to God In that case there would be every possibility that their love lasts a lot longer than last hours of your so-called relationship, but love is not guaranteed by law, the court or the police.
Its interior will be guaranteed and we will be a commitment from the heart, there will be a silent communication. If you're happy with someone you wish that your happiness increases more and more, and if rejoice intimacy with someone, you want to explore this more and more intimacy. And there are some flowers that bloom of love after a long intimacy. There are also seasonal flowers: bloom in six weeks, and after another six wither and disappear forever. There are few flowers that take years to reach flowering, others that employ many people. The longer the time spent is more than the love goes deep.
... Forget about the relationship and learning to relate to another being. When you enter a relationship, you begin to take it for granted, you and your partner will give for granted: this destroys all love affairs. The woman thinks to know the man and the man thinks he knows the woman in reality neither of them knows each other. It 's impossible: the other remains a mystery. And take it for granted the other is to insult, disrespect.
ungrateful if you really think you know your wife. How can you know the woman? How can you know man? Are evolving beings, not things. The woman you met yesterday and today is no more. A lot of water has flowed into the Ganges: the woman is another, is a totally different person. Log egg in contact with her, start over, do not take for granted.
And you, in the morning, look at the face of the man with whom did you sleep last night. It is no longer the same person, there have been many changes in him, the point of being incalculable. Questa è la differenza tra una persona e una cosa. L’arredamento nella camera è immutato ma l’uomo e la donna non sono gli stessi. Continua a esplorare, comincia da capo. Questo è ciò che intendo quando dico di relazionarsi all’altro, di essere in contatto con lui.
Relazionarsi all’altro significa che ricominci sempre da capo, tenti continuamente di familiarizzare con lui. Ancora e di nuovo vi presentate, continuate a scoprirvi a vicenda, tentate di vedere tutte le sfaccettature della personalità altrui. Cerchi continuamente di penetrare sempre più in profondità nei regni interiori dell’altro, nei recessi più intimi del suo essere. Tenti di svelare il mistero that can not be revealed.
This is the joy of love: the exploration of consciousness. And if you come into contact with each other and do not reduce this relate to a relationship, the more you will become a mirror. As you explore it, even subconsciously explore yourself. While going in depth in the other and you know his feelings, his thoughts, his deepest emotions, your even know. Each lover becomes the mirror of the beloved, in this case, love becomes a meditation. ... How much time has passed since the last time you were "eye to eye" with your wife? Or how much time has passed the last time you looked at your husband? Perhaps the years have passed! Who looks at his wife? Take for granted to get to know. What can you see more? Are you more interested in the matter for a person you know: conscious the entire topography of her body, know your reactions, you know everything that has happened between you happen again. It 's a cycle that repeats itself continuously.
Not so, in reality it is not. Nothing is repeated, ever, everything is renewed every day. Your eyes are just as they get older, and your ability to incorporate aging, is your mirror that dusts and become incapable to reflect each other.
To this I say to you comes into contact with another, related to him, stay constantly on their honeymoon. Continue to seek and investigate the other one being to find new ways to love, to find new ways of being together. Each person is an incredible mystery, infinity, infinite and inexhaustible, so that it is not possible to say one day: "Now I know." At most you could say: "I did my best, but the mystery remains a misteroDi fact, most know each other and the other becomes more mysterious. In this case, love is a constant adventure.
“Con te o senza di te” di Osho
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